A 7 day training for women designed to release dis-empowering beliefs while also learning skills and processes to awaken the men they support and love

Awakening men is a workshop experience in Melbourne Victoria Australia facilitated by Shaney Marie & Alejandra Nicolazzo, along with a guest appearance from Jared Osbourne and some other very special men.

This training is designed to support women to release the deep wounds they hold in relationship to men as well as to integrate and embrace the teachings of sacred sexuality and conscious relating into their own work and life.

Whether you are a tantrika, therapist, sex worker, a lover, a wife, a mother or a women looking to gain greater understanding when it comes to men and male sexuality, this training is something all women would benefit from.

Described as “life changing”  “paradigm shifting”  “transformational”

Awakening men is a training that has the potential to completely shift all that YOU ever thought you knew about men.

This training is for you if…
  • You feel like you misunderstand men
  • You are a practitioner and want to develop your knowledge, experience and understandings to creatively weave these teachings into your own practice
  • You want embodied experience of how to better relate to men
  • You want greater insight into the hearts and sexualities of men
  • You are a sex worker who desires to provide a broader range of services as well as be apart of supporting a shift in male sexual consciousness
  • You recognize you are carrying some negative beliefs about men and seem to keep attracting experiences that support these beliefs
  • You want to know the secrets to understand and love men more fully


What will you discover?
  • Release stories, fears and discomfort around men and their sexuality
  • Uncover the vulnerabilities, depth and sensitivity of men
  • Ways to initiate a man into his strength, power and purpose as well as how how to bring him into his soft heartfelt feeling and flow
  • Tools to enhance greater cock consciousnesses, deep presence and sexual freedom
  • Learn ancient secrets from the taoists and tantriks that completely transform the way in which a man experiences his sexual energy
  • Skills to encourage greater communication
  • Learn methods and awaken men to their highest truth
  • Learn about our modern male archetypes
  • Experience how magic and ritual can create transformative experiences to excel evolution


Accommodation and full catering is NOT included. There will however be a catered feast celebration on our final evening together.

Venue will be within 30 mins to Melbourne cbd

Limited early bird tickets available $2,200 (first in)
Full price $2,400

Concession tickets available to women whom require financial assistance, just ask



“I have waited all my life for this…. Thank you and all dear sisters for this life changing experience”

– Deb

“No….words…. can describe the way this incredibly powerful training has changed my being In the world, my relationships with men and women, and my awareness of the power within myself. The very day the training finished, my entire world shifted. Shaney and Alejandra are such powerful creators and hold such loving and inclusive space for every woman involved. If you’re thinking about getting involved, don’t even think another minute. The most powerful training for women to learn about men and how to really connect sex to heart. Life changing. Love changing. World changing.”

– Zoe

“Participating in Awakening Men…. What use are words when we’re speaking of magic, and magic this is. This is a gift to yourself, to your soul, to your ancestors, to your children – and to theirs. There is no decision to be made…. if you are ready to love more truly than you knew was possible, to be free of what has kept you small or hurt or angry, to connect to and integrate all that you are in beautiful harmony, and to have real, useable knowledge of how to deeply honour and serve men, women, humanity and your Divine self – then go. Be a part of this magic. You will indeed learn about Awakening Men and so much more… but you’ll come away having awoken yourself, with Love, In Love – Sovereign – Divine – Free.
Thank you Shaney and Alejandra . Your wisdom, strength, clarity, beauty and softness is exquisite… and apparently quite contagious
So much love”

– Angel

This training transformed my relationship with my own inner masculine energy, opened my eyes to the beautiful tender hearts of men, and gave me tools to better love and work together with the men in my world. I feel like I was able to heal a lot of the hidden toxic beliefs I held around the masculine and unlocked my own powerful heart energy. Would highly recommend this for anyone wanting to transform their life and the lives of the men around them!”

– Kathryn

“I’ve worked with both of these amazing women before, so I knew that this week would be profound. What I didn’t know was how deeply humbled I would be to broaden my understanding of the sensitivity that resides within men. I didn’t know I’d completely fall in love with the 21 other women there who share my vision of a different world, and be so inspired by their courage and beauty. I didn’t know I was going to gain tools and insights that I’m certain are literally going to change my life. I didn’t know how deeply I would be healed in the process.
I could go on and on pouring out the deep gratitude for this experience, but long story short: If you want to have sexy, juicy, respectful, open, nurturing, delicious and equal relationships with men; If you work with men in some capacity and want to be more effective in whatever it is that you do; or if you simply feel the way that I do, that women and men have been at war with one another for long enough, then you’ll want to check out these women and their incredible work”

– Nicole

“We emerged after making a pledge to our brothers that we will now be change makers of a huge shift in humanity. Stepping into a new paradigm where women do not treat men as the enemy. A new paradigm, where we help our fellow sisters to know they need not fear men. A new paradigm where women lift men up, respecting and honoring them as our equals, instead of punishing and castrating them. A new paradigm of trust, where us priestesses help men to feel safe around us. Safe to open up their hearts and vulnerability to truly feel all their feelings without any judgement. Fully supporting our brothers. A new paradigm of equality with the masculine and feminine.
This is our pledge. This is our oath, dear brothers and sisters. This is game changing. I will dedicate my life to this. Let’s do this sisters”

– Alira

“Wow what a week at Awakening Men. I feel like I’m going to be integrating that one for awhile!
It revealed a lot of deep wounds and patterns I’ve been running in terms of relating to men. I realized how much my male relating has been stuck inside a teenagers, rejected mind frame. I have become aware of the island I’ve created around my heart to “protect’’ myself from getting hurt, but ultimately hurting myself more by denying myself some necessary parts of human relating. There is a lot of tenderness and vulnerability in this area for myself, but I am really wanting to open my heart through the awkwardness, the embarrassment, the fear of rejection, the learning and vulnerability. I want to open my eyes to the abundance of AMAZING men in this world and really invite them into my life and heart. Ending this belief of them being this strange, different species and really see them as equal in terms of their humanness, their softness and their desire as much as anyone else to be loved, accepted, seen and held.”

– Rebeckah

There is a magic portal that opens every time the Awakening Men women come together. The vortex of getting real with oneself begins to swirl, even in the lead up and edge-pushing moments with the masculine in my life confront me. Then I step into the rabbit-hole of further growth; deeper understanding of all shades of humanity, cardiac arresting heart opening, and finding compassion for my own darkness. I emerge with a more structured Inner masculine, and an intimate knowledge of how he beautifully supports and balances the feminine essence in me. I emerge feeling balanced, and in alignment with a paradigm of peace, support and understanding between the sexes.

– Rebecca

DATES 2018

Tuesday 1st May

Wednesday 2nd May

Thursday 3rd

Friday 4th

Saturday 5th

Sunday 6th

Monday 7th

It is recommended that throughout the seven days you make no other plans so you utilize the rest time allocated for processing your journey. The end times may be adapted as the course progresses depending on the energy of the group and what is needed. We have a lot of content to move through but also recognize the importance of rest so we invite flexibility in attending.


Early bird (FIRST IN)

$1,900 Early bird price

$1,900 payment plan with 1% fee per payment installment

Full price


$2,400 payment plan with 1% fee per payment installment

Spaces are limited


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  • Be honest, we hold no judgement love! xx
  • What has got you curious about this opportunity?